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Dating is so vulnerable, and sometimes you want to quit. But deep down you know you want to find an extraordinary love. The question is - how?

Clarity.

This program is for YOU if...

HOW IT WORKS

At Curate Your Mate™, our mission is to elevate your dating strategy so you attract your just-right partner for life.

Step one: Book a FREE 30-minute call. 

Start with our intake questions and let's make sure we are a good fit!

Our boutique service offers one-on-one coaching that is entirely customized to your unique circumstances. Our 90-day Roadmap to Love program includes:

  • a 3-hour deep-dive into your history

  • in-depth personality assessment

  • weekly 50-minute one-on-one coaching

  • email and text support between sessions

  • helping authentic YOU shine through in all your interactions

  • journal prompts for growth

  • affirmations for confident energy

  • customized tips to level up your dating

Outcome: You have a crystal-clear, PERSONALIZED roadmap to attract your just-right partner.

Still thinking about it? Book a FREE 30-minute consultation. 

Frequently Asked Questions

  • What is the coaching schedule?
    Our one-to-one coaching takes place over 90 days. The first session is a three-hour intensive where we do a deep dive into history. The next five sessions are one hour per week. Then there is a two-hour midpoint meeting where we see how far you’ve come and set goals for our remaining time together. We meet every other week until the end of the 90 day period.
  • Can I get support between coaching sessions?
    Yes - you can reach out by text or email and we can handle impromptu needs as they come up.
  • Do we meet live or by Zoom?
    Our work is done on Zoom so you can be in the comfort and privacy of your own home.
  • What is the cost?
    Private coaching is a powerful tool for breaking the patterns holding you back and stepping into your new level of confidence and joy. Our service is completely customized to your needs and you have the undivided attention of your coach. This service is for those who are ready to do the work and serious about success. The price for individual coaching is a worthy investment. We will discuss the terms when we talk. Until then, ask yourself: how will your life will shift by finding your life partner? What investment of time and resources are you willing to make to find them?
  • Is there homework?
    Yes. Prior to the Intensive that kicks off our work together, you will receive a link to a 45-minute personality instrument that helps guide our conversation. You will also receive a set of questions asking you to reflect on your family history and your relationship history in detail. As we continue working together, there may be short readings, questionnaires, and writing prompts based on your unique story. The more attention, vulnerability, and whole-heartedness you bring to your homework, the more extraordinary your insights and progress will be. There are no shortcuts - but a worthy goal such as finding an extraordinary love deserves your best effort!
  • Am I guaranteed to find my partner?
    We know there are no guarantees when it comes to dating. Our service provides a thoughtful and supportive structure for you to gain insights and new strategies to elevate your dating approach. We have field-tested what we offer and continue to investigate new techniques to help you grow. It is, of course, up to you to do the work. Those who do the work increase their likelihood of finding a terrific match. As with any life task that is complicated but worthwhile, you will get out of the experience what you put into it. Be open, honest, willing to stretch in new directions, and you will have earned whatever delightful experiences come your way.
  • Is this a matchmaking service?
    No. We offer one-on-one coaching to individuals who want to strengthen their dating mindset. We do not arrange any meetings between people. Our work helps you to develop your own inner compass. Think of the adage, ‘Give a man a fish, he eats for a day – teach a man to fish and he eats for life.’ By building your clarity and confidence during our work together, you will more effectively sift through potential dates.
  • Will you write my profile?
    No. We are not a profile creating service. However, during our coaching, we can review how you communicate and offer ideas that may help you catch the attention of people who could be a good match for you.
  • Do you offer photography?
    No. We do highly recommend hiring a local photographer for excellent shots for your profile if you choose to do online dating apps.
  • Do I have to use online dating?
    No. While dating is a numbers game and using apps can expand your potential reach, we totally understand that meeting people in real life may be preferable for you. We have strategies to share with you that will help you reach more potential partners without using apps.

"Love is a vessel that contains both security and adventure, and commitment offers one of the great luxuries of life: time. Marriage is not the end of romance, it is the beginning."

 

- Esther Perel

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