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MY STORY

Want to hear my story? For all the juicy details, see my blog post!

 

Here’s the quick version: after my divorce in my mid-forties I faced a decision: I could stay single, raise my daughter, work, and enjoy my friends. But, my heart whispered loudly, “I want an EXTRAORDINARY LOVE!” 

 

This felt impossible. But, I dipped a toe in the water. I had a few dates with people who were waaaaaay off the mark. Discouraged, I started reading dating books and watching seminars. Picking the best of what I found, I put together a more thoughtful and customized plan. 

 

Over an 18-month period I dated 70 men. I refined my search based on life-long character traits I wanted in a partner. I got crystal clear on my own life goals. That clarity led me to date men who were better and better matches. Until finally, ding-ding-ding, I met THE ONE. My husband and I will celebrate our tenth wedding anniversary this year!

 

Being in a happy relationship has changed my life. That’s why I want to help other people get their search right and improve their chances of a happy partnership, too!

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Clarity creates your compass to love.

My Mission

Our mission at Curate Your Mate is to elevate your dating strategy so you attract your just-right partner for life.

 

Having a Dating Mindset Coach in your corner will keep you grounded, confident, and traveling your Roadmap to Love!

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