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Let's Elevate your Dating Mindset!

  •  Date with Confidence  •  

  •  Attract Your Just-Right Partner  •  

  •  Break Bad Habits to Find Real Joy  •  

Hi, I'm Kerstin!


I'm here to help you find love from the inside out. You ready?


Dating can be daunting...

You want to find an extraordinary love.

But you’ve faced so many dating disasters that you are about to give up.

It's exhausting to go on dates with people who are not even close to a match.

You feel the odds are against you and doubt you can attract a quality partner.

Why is it so hard for a lovely person to meet another lovely person?

Hey single-at-midlife friend,

I see you and I’m glad you stopped by.

I've had more dating disasters than I can count: annoying apps, depressing dates, and, worst of all, self-sabotage. I really get how frustrating midlife dating can be.

When my efforts at dating failed I asked myself: Will I do whatever it takes to find an extraordinary love? My answer was: YES! 


I studied the wisest mentors, formed my own approach, and within months I met the man who became my dear husband. We just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary and are just so grateful we found each other.


If you say YES to finding an extraordinary love, I can help you transform your whole dating approach with confidence and success.

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“My dear,

In the midst of hate, I found there was, within me, an invincible love.

In the midst of tears, I found there was, within me, an invincible smile.

In the midst of chaos, I found there was, within me, an invincible calm.

I realized, through it all, that…

In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer.

And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger – something better, pushing right back.”

-Albert Camus


Working with you helped me dig deep and focus more on me, rather than just finding a mate. I found a new way forward and I found what works for me. You are interesting and funny and I always looked forward to our sessions.

- Jennifer F.

Take your dating life to a new level with mindset coaching

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